by Viki Distin My husband and I are sharing 30 years of marriage this year. This union has many parts to the longevity, but the biggest puzzle piece was marriage counseling. Over the span of 3 decades we have had 5 counselors, but the last one lasted 10 years and we even got to fire her. She was an Imago trained counselor, and we found the style of dealing with conflict incredibly skillful. The first step in "dialoguing" (after asking if this is a good [...]