by Viki Distin While I am not sure of the source of this quote, it has stuck with me for many years. "In most conflicts, the other person is not the problem." While there are some cases where there is clearly a perpetrator and a victim, most of the time, the problem resides within oneself. Last Thanksgiving, I had a clash with an extended family member. (Would it be an interesting sociology experiment to determine how many skirmishes occur during family [...]
