The little fingers are anything but small. They are directly connected to our habits of "trying" verses allowing. Here in the US, we use the word "try" A LOT, but what does it really mean? Do a quick experiment for me: I want you to put a pen, pencil, or something else, on the counter. Now I want you to "try" picking it up. What happens? You either did or you did not pick it up. We are saying we [...]